Maybe life is about the scars, maybe its about proving you showed up for it

The law of authenticity
"The most valuable gift you have to offer is yourself"

The one thing I heard the MOST during the workshops was....

...

"I'm just not that confident"

There is this misconception that when working with people you have to be this super confident/ warrior king-queen/ popular/ funny/ entertaining/ life and soul of the party with your shit together!

You know, out hustling and being a social butterfly with likes and followers pouring all over you...

Constantly asking yourself

Am I acting natural?
Am I saying the right thing?
What are they thinking of me?
Am I looking like a knob?

There is not a right-kinda-rocking-personality required for being a photographer

The right kind of personality to use is yours!

If you believe yourself to not be a people person, this is untrue. You are human right? So therefore be human. You have relationships? You can maintain friendships... ? this is the same thing. Be true to you...

You, I guess, have heard of the ideal client, everyone is talking about "their ideal client" But the point of knowing who your ideal client is:

Is knowing who you are and being aligned to that.

You do not need to step outside of your comfort zone, sit happy in it knowing there are other people in your tribe who are happy to sit there with you...

And if the people you thought would sit there with you are not... that is fine. Don't be upset by that. Send them love and clear the room you had saved for them for others... just be aligned and true to you.

True to your heart and soul... because no one can be you... don't try and be something you are not, as this would be a massive crying shame that the world will not get to see what you can do, why you create what you create, what you love, what you think, feel, say, do... that passion that your tribe are crying out to see...will never be there ...

Being whole means what you say, do, see are not separate... you are whole, complete, present!

Today's task...
I want you to dream up your super-shit-hot version of you... the person you would be if you didn't overthink every... single... part... of yourself. The person that would make you feel happy, content, at home, aligned....
When you write this down, write it as this is you right now...
"I am..."
Not
"I will be"

Not the future version of yourself, or the past version before somehow on the way these beliefs about yourself that you picked up along the way of "life" changed you... This dream version is in there right now...

Lots of love and I cannot wait to share the last law with you tomorrow